What's one of the most common things that brides to be fret about? Besides being too fat, tripping up or not being able to speak because of nerves. Yes, the guests. Will they behave themselves? Will families get on with each other or friends complain about being sat so far away they are almost in another room. Will great grandma be rude/fall asleep/get drunk and aunty Mona embarass everyone by flirting widly with the best man and try and seduce him in the toilets. How many of these ridiculous scenarios play over and over in the mind of those on the nuptial parapet and torment them unneccessarily so that their stress levels zoom off the scale.A session coaching with me would soon eliminate all of that! We can't control other peoples behaviour can we? Not really-not en masse. Nor should we wish too. Once you come around to letting go of control and allow things to develop naturally, life becomes much simpler and much more enjoyable.
On your wedding day, you are going to have to place some trust in your guests and believe that, on the whole they are all there for you to support you and celeberate with you. Nobody has turned up to sabotage your day but at the end of it-the day that is-people are human and will make mistakes. That's just life and what makes it fun, enjoyable, unpredicatable and worth living.
Your wedding doesn't need to be perfect-it needs to be rich and real and full of meaning. The happenings of the day add personality and colour and you will have the best time if you just go with the flow, open your mind, open your heart, open your arms and embrace it all as your wonderful, imperfect, unforgettable day.
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